And sometimes the delay is so big ... that we start wondering ... do i still want that?!
It happens even in the love stories, in different dreams regarding the careers ... and usually in what we call ... big dreams.
After a life when i actually had lots of dreams and goals ... i realize today that 99% of them were pretty silly.
And that is just to be polite with myself in front of you all.
But this honest idea appeared only when i analyzed myself after the obsession of that desire disappeared from my mind.
Everything took a while ... and even if i visualized a lot ... many of my desires were accomplished sometimes too late.
So late ... that i felt no pleasure of having that something.
Long time ago i would have given my life for some or my desires ... and the moment i had the desires for real ... i just realize it was a total non sense.
And it happened not once ... not twice ... but many, many times. I then realized that the delay itself was to understand that it was actually not a path for me.
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Becoming so late ... real ... made me see that we should not pay so much attention to all of our desires ... and not even to the obsessions. The time between the idea of the desire and seeing the desire real is a good time to meditate if that is really a good path to follow in life. Know is annoying, but it’s healthy ... cause not all we want in life is actually a positive idea for us.
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Even the best case scenario
... will sometimes bring bad vibes
A businessman, used with lots of daily activities and stress, goes in vacation with his wife and kids.
Instead of relaxing and enjoying the fact that they went in an amazing resort ... he suddenly realizes that his vibe changed in a negative way.
The complex was fabulous, in a middle of a wild zone, in a beautiful large delta, warn weather ... so everything was perfect.
It was the perfect case scenario for a vacation, but not for this guy.
His mind was somewhere else.
Used to be involved in lots of things, not necessary positive ones ... but used with the stress, staying in vacation was like a nightmare. He didn’t know anything about the art of practicing relaxation. Coming from a world, defined by him as a world of an adorable chaos ... being in vacation was looking like a boring time.
It was nothing to do, just stay and look at the nature while drinking a good coffee.
But he used to enjoy the coffee only in his office where he really had lots of things to do.
He felt relaxation only when he had enough money in his bank account so ... staying at the swimming pool was really annoying. The best case scenario was bringing him a negative vibe, cause he was not in his daily environment ... good for making money.
So ... what we name best case scenario for life ... might not be a
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world adored by everybody.
We used to live in a certain energetic field, that we define as the reality itself, with everything that reality means ... or just as the environment of our lives.
But however we see it, sometimes we might be used even with a life in prison and after a while we become blinds and don’t see anything else ... except the prison.
Even if God will come and take us in a tour to the Paradise, will look like a nonsense to change the prison with the life from Paradise.
The nonsense itself is actually totally different of how we see it ... but we always prefer the energies of the place that we are used with.
We ... the human beings ... are not too open minds ... and many of us
.. will never be, but maybe for some ... somewhere in the future, at the right time we will learn to open the mind, the soul ... and probably also the eyes.
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Jesus said to turn the other cheek
... but should we really do it?!
Not long time ago ... it happens that a guy i know to rent the house of his grandmother to another guy that came from internet.
The grandmother died 2 years ago and it was silly to let the house unused.
The rentier was happy getting monthly money from an inherited house that costed no money ... and the guy that rented the house was very happy with the price of the property. His kid loved the house and his wife also.
He was enjoying drinking his daily 5-6 beers in the backyard while gambling online from his mobile phone.
In the nights he was happily smoking weed and was feeling that he has an amazing stay in the grandma’s house. He loved the energy field of everything around.
But even if he was a rentier also, cause he had his own places rented to others ... he somehow started to hate the guy that rented him the house.
Even if he was paid in time from his tenants, he actually started to dislike the fact that he was paying monthly money for his rent.
He started to think that without paying the rent he could buy more beers, more weeds and have much more money for gambling online. Somehow it was the start of redefining his new friend as his worst enemy.
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One month, he goes to him and proposed to use the deposit for guarantee as the payment for the rent, but the owner says ... nothing and left.
This was the day when the guy that rented him the house became what is called ... persona non grata.
He started to speak behind his back all kinds of things so that he will somehow effect in a negative way the relationships the guy was having with other tenants.
Even if he was personally earning from rent in one month, the equivalent of the amount he was paying for the rent of the house for one year ... it became very annoying for him to use those money for paying something to a guy did not even worked for that property, cause everything was inherited.
He was having in his mind all the time the beers and the weed he could buy with that amount of money.
But one day ... reaching his limits he started to attack verbally the owner.
He told him all kinds of injury and that he will leave soon, but the
owner asked him “Why don’t you leave now?! Do you think i am Jesus
to turn the other cheek also?!”
They used to chat a lot in the past.
We could almost define the guys in one point .. friends .. but now they were enemies.
A non sense attack started from both sides, totally forgetting the beginning of their relationship.
You see ... this is somehow how many connections ends.
They starts in a beautiful way, but ends up with a silly war generated by the silly habits, thoughts and interests that we have.
Then ... life somehow continues ... but not with the same persons around.
Other people appears and then we make the same mistakes with them ... on and on and on, cause truth be told we are not Jesus to turn the other cheek.
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The decision of practicing the art of
saying “Good bye!” ... is a choice for a better life
Have you ever wondered why you we keep in our lives all the people that constantly hurt us?!
Why if we really know what we should do and we feel it so often ... we don’t have the power to totally disconnect from those people?! Yes ... in many, many cases we know what we should do and we do nothing ... not for a day, a week or a month ... but for years.
We stay in a toxic energetic field, defined as an unwanted reality ...
we know the new path but we do ... nothing.
The toxicity becomes the main attribute of our confort zone, but we prefer staying surrounded by energies that give us bad vibes all a time.
We accept a negative person at work, because he is our boss and we need a job to get the money for living a decent life.
We accept the negative behavior and influence of our parents, because we live in the same house and we can’t afford to stay somewhere else.
We accept the negative impact came from the person that sleeps in the same bed with us ... our life partner.
Long time ago everything was perfect, but now the relationship itself was ruined by all the negative emotions generated by different events and situations.
There is almost ... no healing, but we continue staying in a negative energy field because we are used with the life in that house ... and
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everything involves this.
And ... when we see the balance with negativity on one side and on the other side ... the advantages generated by those relationship we decide that is in our interest to still remain in that confort zone.
We have the philosophy of a businessman that wants to make money and does not care what really involves the whole process of making money.
We don’t have a conscience and we care too much of the benefits we have ... so we accept toxicity as part of our lives.
And between being happy and unhappy, we decide is wiser to shut up our positive thoughts and accept life the way it is ... no matter if it sends us so, so many signals as negative vibes.
So ... we could conclude that living a happy life is just a decision ... a choice between living in a positive environment and our silly interests. ... just think about it!
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The art of interacting with people
... should be studied in schools from the first grades
Few people i make business with spoke me very impolite lately. But suddenly i remembered that during the time i spoke impolite to hundreds of people that i interacted with.
Even few days ago, while exchanging some euros into dollars in an exchange shop, the lady named me arrogant.
I smiled and asked her to define why she sees me that way ... and she started:
“Well, first of all i see in your id card that you are from the capital of the country.
Then you speak too ... official.
And you believe you came here, at the end of the world and you are superior to us”
... “but i don’t feel superior at all. I came to a beautiful wild place and i just want to exchange some money to spend them in here. Nothing more ... nothing less”
“Yeah ... right!” ... she replied, but then smiled.
A conversation of 3-4 minutes ... but at the end i smiled and she smiled.
In my opinion she was looking impolite to me and i looked impolite to her also, but we realized i am a customer for her and she can help me exchange the money.
Well ... it was obvious, but not to the 2 of us.
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We were too blinds for 2-3 minutes, cause the imagination played with us ... and we did not realized it.
The exchange of energy, even if it was done in an official place ... was looking somehow unsecure for both of us.
We had to interact, but we treated each other as enemies, even if it was a very clear business ... with very clear details, cause i wanted to exchange a certain amount of money and she was exchanging me the money at a certain price.
It was nothing to talk about ... except the fact that we created an energy field that looked very unfriendly ... and both of us entered into an auto protective way and we attacked each other.
I was meeting during my lifetime thousands of people and i am sure that the lady from the exchange was in the same position, but we did not know how to start the interaction ... and what mask of us should we show in this interaction.
We failed in the first minutes, but we succeeded in the end to normalize the connection to the positive standards. Was it difficult?!
Well ... we almost failed ... and i could not believe we had the power to smile to each other after we finished the process with the money, but truth be told most of the people, after an annoying meeting they just close that relationship, sometimes forever.
... and the art of interacting with people ... should be studied in schools from the first grades.
Maybe this way ... not so many silly problems will appear ... so, so often ... and we should not believe that we live in an unfriendly environment.
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Tribes ... a mix with many
types of energies
Thousands of years ago people were living in tribes.
Actually ... the tribes were what we should name today small communities.
They saw that they can live together, help each other ... protect the interest of the community but also protect themselves by different types of enemies as animals ... or other tribes.
They created a symbol of the tribe and that was a tattoo ... so they can easily see from what tribes they were.
Now, after thousands of years the community is something totally different and we could not adapt anymore to that primitive life.
We see in the concept of community as an energetic field where we don’t feel alone ... and sometimes nothing more, but we don’t have the power to adapt ourselves to the real interests of that community as people from tribes used to do.
I once read an article into an interior design magazine about a real estate investor that created a residential complex with about 15 houses, having also a bar in the center.
The funny thing was that all from there were consuming large quantities of alcohol, but the bar, even if it was looking very good ... was not used by anyone.
The complex could be called AA Residential Complex and it was kind of a modern tribe, but people from there, even if all of them loved alcohol, were preferring to not use the bar, which was a paradox …
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just because they did not liked to interact with the others.
They were not even saying “Hello!” one to the other.
